What is Love?

What does love really means? There is a lot of definition of love that can be found on the internet but what does it really means? What is the felling of being in loved or what is the feeling of loving someone. How can you say that you are in love or loving someone.

First let us check what does “LOVE” means based on the results that can be found on various resource.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 – Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
2. Merriam-webster
*strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties
*attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers
*affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests
*warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion


So what is love?

For me, it is really hard to say if you are really in loved or if your partner really loved you. You may ask why? That is because most of of the descriptions of love can be show by a person even though they did not mean it(not being honest). That is also the reason why there are people who are being hurt or people who hurt others by showing fake love.

Some deceive people to gain personal interest and not for genuine love like marrying a rich old person because of wealth not because of love but they show the description above. They cuddle each other, they are having sex, they are showing affection especially in front of other people, and more.

There are some who are just after sex who would be in a relationship(bf/gf) and ask for sex as a proof that the other person love them(this is the usually done by boys). And after they get what they want from their partners they will look for a new prospect to do it again or worst cheating, which leaves the other person heart broken that will result for that person to hate all male/female.

There are also some scenario where the other partner lost his interest or getting tired on the relationship.


What is love? I really don’t know. Do you know?

I will end this post without the answer as I don’t really know what is love. You can comment below with your own definition of what is love and let us try to define what is love together.


Eikzname Fermin

Eikzname Fermin


I am a bored person who just wanted to do boring stuff coz I am too bored.